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Domestic
Violence Any Family, Any Age.
Domestic
Violence does not only happen amongst young people. It can occur in older
families too. For many older victims of domestic violence, there has been
ongoing violence for many years, yet for others, it does not begin until later
in life. Domestic Violence is the wrongful exercise of power and control of one
person over the other
Various
ways that Domestic Violence can be perpetrated include:
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Physical
Abuse:
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Slapping,
hitting, bruising, beating, pushing, grabbing, pinching, or any other
intentional act that causes someone physical pain, injury or suffering. Physical
abuse also includes excessive forms of restraint used to confine someone against
their will, i.e. tying, chaining, or locking someone in a room, force feeding.
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Emotional
Abuse:
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Can
be verbal or non-verbal; it includes insult, yelling and threats of harm, name
calling, put downs, humiliating, intimidating, treating an older person like a
child.
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Sexual
Abuse:
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Is
any sexual activity to which the older or dependent adult does not consent to or
is incapable of consenting. Non-consensual sexual activity includes; unwanted
touching, rough and unpleasant sex, forced or coerced sex, coerced nudity,
sodomy….
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Financial
Abuse:
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Misappropriation
of property, money or valuables, forced changes to a will or other legal
documents, manipulating the older adult for the financial benefit or material
gain of another….
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Social
Abuse:
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Is
the refusal to allow a person access to family, friends, social activities, and
talking to anyone. Preventing a person from receiving his or her mail or
telephone calls….
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Neglect:
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Failure
to provide a person with food, water, clothing, shelter, personal hygiene,
medication, personal safety and health services….
Is
this happening to you?
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Do
you feel isolated? Are you being deprived of the outside world?
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Are
you being deprived private space of time?
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Are
you being controlled and not allowed to make decisions for yourself?
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Is
your spouse, family members or carer withholding or mismanaging your
medications or your money?
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Are
you being deprived of good personal hygiene or proper cleanliness when you
need assistance?
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Does
your spouse, family members or carer make false accusations against you?
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Is
your spouse, family members or carer verbally, mentally, emotionally,
physically or sexually abusing you? |
Remember your bill of rights:
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I
have the right to be safe.
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I
have the right to a violent free environment and lifestyle.
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I
have the right to equality.
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I
have a right to be appreciated.
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I
have a right to my dignity.
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I
have a right to make choices.
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I
have a right to receive empathy and warmth.
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I
have a right to be accepted as I am.
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Brochures
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OFFICE SPACE AVAILABLE
We have a couple of offices available within the
secure space of NQDVRS on the 4th floor and we would be
happy to discuss co-location, rent and space with anyone who needs
some rooms in the CBD.
Telephone: 4721 2888
and ask for Pauline or John
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GROUPS
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* Maintain for Men
Every
2nd & 4th Wednesday 5.45 pm to 7.30pm at NQDVRS 4721 2888
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* MenTER
21/2/12
to 12/4/12 Tuesday & Thursday. 5.45pm to 8.30pm at NQDVRS 4721 2888
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