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Issues that women consider:
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Fear they will be beaten more severely if they
take action.
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Threats to kill or harm them , their children,
and other family members.
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Dependency on their partner for shelter, food,
and other necessities.
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Isolation (no one understands and believes
them).
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Believe children need two parents, and don't
want to raise them alone.
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A desire to keep the family together and live up
to your religious commitment to remain with your partner.
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Fear they won't be able to take care of
themselves and their children alone.
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Their partner has threatened to commit suicide
if they leave.
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Believe that things will get better.
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Believe that no one else will love you.
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Fear of rejection by family and friends.
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Feel ashamed, embarrassed, and humiliated and
don't want anyone to know what is happening.
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Think others will believe that you are stupid
for staying as long as you already have.
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Fear that you will be deported or that your
children will be taken out of the country.
| If they are in a same sex relationship, they may fear they will be
"outed" or that no one will believe them. |
| That he is violent with me, but is a good father. Children
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| Pets in Crisis |
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It is a myth that people don't leave violent relationships. Many leave an
average of five to seven times before they are able to leave permanently. Women
are in greater danger from their partner's abuse when they leave. Only
they can decide what is best for them and their children.
Whether they decide to remain with their abusive
partner or leave, it is important to plan for safety.
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